Being
Parents
Mother is a precious woman ever in my
life. She is a figure of a woman who never complained and always be patient
with all happening. She always does household without ever complaining.
Harmonious family is a family which lives in understanding about all
situations. On the other hand, being a father is not easy, my father always
tried to work hard for those he loves. Everyone else knows, being a parent is
hard job but precious.
Sometimes I think, how can I be a
good parent to my kids later? Can I be a good mother for my children? Can I
survive when facing a lot of problems? I think it is an easy thing to do, but
difficult to apply. The first thing that I will instill in my children is
honesty. I want my children to be honest. I know if the children lie, they can
lie again because the lie will be covered with another lie. Maybe being parents
and a friend at the same time is a good idea.
I want to teach my childre to manage
their own finance from early age, perhaps by giving them money weekly or
monthly, so it can make them able to control their desires which one should be
in a priority and which are not. One important thing I will do if I become a
parent is to freedom my children to decide their own choiche. I will not
educate my children to negative thing, I will release them as long as it is
still positive catgory; such as giving them freedom to choos the school that
they want, find their own identity, and explore their interests or talents. I
did it, because I know how distinct if we curb without giving chance to choose.
Being a naughty or liar child is
usual because of the association of the environment. I am not going to forbid
my children making friends because they are living in it. The certainly know
about their friends, they might not be a friend with someone who is not good.
If my children start to become naughty or a liar, I will be silent without
giving a scolding. I did it because I want my children know their mistake by
their own. I would sit and listen to their stories or explanation about what
they did. Maybe they woud be embarrassed and try not to repeat them. When it is
too much, I would advise them first before giving their scolding. If we are too
harsh with the child, the child will not care anymore with us.
Hitting is one of the acts I will
never do to my children. Why is that? Because my parents never did that to me;
when my parents were angry to me, they did not hit me. So, I will never do
that. Besides, I do not want to be mother who nags as my mother. Listening to
nag too much makes me bored and I called it annoying.
I want my son later became a
formidable boy who is able to maintain and loving sister because a man’s duty
is to maintain what. Other than I hope I’ll be able to be a fun parent who
appreciated by my kids not feared. Having children who hate their own parents
would be very painful. The children usually hate ther parents because parents
cannot understnd the situation of the children. I will approach, love, and
learn all their activities make us understand the situation.
Sometimes what we think best is not
best for them. There are times we trust and distrust to children, because
children who have started to teens; they will believe their friend than their
own parents. Making the rules would not be useful anymore, if there was no
trust there. It makes us go awry, do not know what action should be taken.
Therefore, I dare to sy that being a parent is a tough job, but precious,
because parents are remain patient always do the best for their children, and
will never lead their fatigued to be successful.
